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Want to Charm your Meanest Friend?
Read on for tips on how you can get along with your partner's buddies even if
they don't like you...
When you are dating someone it is as important to get along with his or her
friends as it is to be compatible with your partner. That at times is not a easy
task as you would feel that there is interference from the friends and they will
feel that you have stolen their friend. If you are in good terms with them life
is cool but if you don't share a good vibe with them, things can get ugly.
Make an impression
People tend to discuss all the aspects of their relationships with their
friends. If your man or woman has told their friends something negative about
you and that impression is stuck on their minds, you need to replace that.
Therefore, every time you are around with the friend, say things that would
leave them with a favourable impression of you.
Bonding
If your partner's friends dislike you, the problem might be deeper than just a
superficial dislike. Sometimes, when one out of two friends gets into a
relationship, the other friend starts feeling neglected. To solve this problem,
you could all go out for dinner or partying and then later you can spend time
alone with your partner.
Listen
When you do bond with your partner's friends, don't do it only because you need
to tolerate them because they are your man or woman's friends. Be genuine. If
you're forcing yourself to listen to them or bond, they will see through it and
dislike you even more.
Show love
The best way to win over your partner's friends is to shower him/her with love
in front of them. If his or her friends see how much you care for their friend,
they will approve of you. After all, if they are good friends they would want
that their friend to be happy.
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